Half Birthday!

Friday, July 22, 2011

SIX MONTHS.  Really?  We made it? 


All the been-there-done-that mommies told me 6 months would be a turning point.  We'd find our groove then, and this crazy new life would start to seem normal.  I can honestly say they were right!  Our days now have a fairly predictable rhythm to them.

Here is our baby, looking a little more melancholy than usual because she has the summer flu and a U.T.I., not to mention going through the tumultuous "Wonder Week 26".  I look at these pictures and my heart just swells with love and pride, but also a bit of sadness.  She's definitely not a newborn anymore.  After all, what newborn finds drinking from a big girl cup wayyyy more interesting than a breast?  There was a time I thought she would never be unglued from my chest.  It makes me a little sad!





The lilypad headband is now listed on etsy!  A perfect baby shower gift!  Will soon be available in other colors.




She's saying "Yes Sir!" in the middle pic...


 
The sparkly black headband is also available on etsy!  It's made of soft black netting, not itchy tulle, just FYI.  I stocked up on those "My Little Legs" leg warmers because Siena is on the verge of crawling, and we've got nothing but cold, hard travertine floors.  At 2.00-4.00 a pop, they are a steal!  I guess they are a wannabe "Baby Legs" brand, but I have both and can't really tell the difference, besides the price.  

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PROOF

Thursday, July 21, 2011

PROOF that this blog is still about my etsy shop, and not *just* about Siena (although she takes up about 99% of my time, and therefore 99% of my blog...)

See?  I created this new headband as part of the Petal and Thorn Kidlets collection :)


It features a kanzashi lotus flower atop a fuzzy felt lily pad, on a super comfy headband that Sisi didn't even try to pull off. 

More cuteness to come! 

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Our Fourth of July

Friday, July 15, 2011

*I'm on a posting frenzy!  This is very belated, but I finally have pictures of our 4th.*

Good friends, heat wave, hot dogs, homemade mango salsa, tequila rickeys (Joe), coca cola (me), planned nautical outfit coordination (see pics below), all crammed into the short window of 3pm-7pm, between Sisi's second nap and bedtime.  Thankfully we were not the only parents to leave the party early to get the kiddos to bed, so I didn't feel like a such a weirdo!

 

After Siena was sound asleep, we spent the rest of the night calming down stressed out puppies who hate fireworks.  We were dogsitting, so in addition to Pesto and Basil, we had a German shepherd and a rat terrier to look after. 

I can't believe we're smack dab in the middle of summer!  When I sign checks, I tend to think it's April for some reason.  I'm in this weird time warp. 

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Diet Decisions

Thursday, July 14, 2011

Warning:  Vegetarians need not read this! 

Joe went in on 1/2 a cow with a friend, had it butchered, and brought home some of the spoils yesterday. He took out each meat part, explained what it was and how we could cook it.  He even said, "Have you ever seen such beauty?" while holding up some steak. He looked at me with *almost* the same adoration on our wedding day.

I've watched Joe grow in his passion for food over the past few years. He's become much pickier about what goes into his body, so much so that he's pretty much taken over the grocery shopping. He's a true caveman now, eating lots of carefully selected meat, fish, eggs, and vegies.  Lots of raw cultured butter, kefir, and coconut oil.  The only carbs he really eats are sweet potatoes and squash. 

In this alternate universe of his, pork rinds are a healthier choice than plain popcorn, heavy cream is better than skim milk, and greasy bacon is better than chicken breast.  Just ask him about the time he ate a whole stick of butter (well, he got through 3/4 of it) to see if it would boost his energy.  He is on a strict "paleo diet", and as much as I tisk tisked the whole thing at first, a year later he's got a washboard stomach, rarely gets sick, and has more energy than he knows what to do with.  His idea of fun is to get blood tests done and watch the doctor look amazed at how low his triglycerides can be on a mostly bacon diet.  When he "cheats" and has something "forbidden", he feels sick the rest of the day.  

Now, if Joe is doing the grocery shopping in our household, where do I come in?  Where does Siena come in?  If Joe is Tarzan, must I be Jane and Sisi a little monkey? 

After many an eye roll, I'm starting to head in the paleo direction.  I gave up cereal quite a while ago, because it does nothing for me besides spike sugar cravings for the rest of the day.  So for breakfast, Joe makes his pile of bacon, eggs, and vegies, and puts a little aside for me.  Or I'll have kefir and wild blueberries and a hard boiled egg. 

For lunch, I do my own non-paleo thing. This is my chance to eat grains or pasta.  For the past week, I've been into Trader Joe's microwaveable bibimbap with heaps of kimche on top. Sooo good, and a little rice is not gonna kill me. 

My dinner is always paleo, because I refuse to cook two dinners. And practically speaking, paleo dinners are very easy to cook.  I choose a meat from the fridge and start marinading it during Sisi's second nap.  I pop a few sweet potatoes or squash in the pressure cooker for 7 minutes.  I stir fry a few vegetables with the aforementioned meat, and bam.  Dinner in 20 minutes or less!  We keep it semi-interesting by rotating meats, spices, and vegies.  I also feel really good ending the day with such rich, satisfying meals that leave me full but not bloated the way a pasta dish might. But I still have bread and pastries from time to time, and still have to have a daily dose of sugar.  I've never been a fanatical dieter (except that random 1 year stint as a vegan) so I'm okay having one foot in and one foot out.  But I wonder if a year from now I'll be full-on paleo. We'll just have to see!

I'm guessing that all the healthy fats I'm consuming must be wonderful for Sisi's breastmilk, because she's got leg rolls galore and a triple chin.  And you know what else is made of fat?  BABY'S BRAINS. So hopefully her's is growing well, too.



We just started feeding Sisi solid foods. So far she's had avocados, egg yolk, squash, sweet potato, liver, and a little bit of apple sauce (to make the liver taste good).  She loves it all, and swallows most of it!  We end each meal with a few sips of water from mommy's cup, which makes her beam with pride.We skipped the rice cereal completely after reading some research that babies actually don't produce the enzyme to digest complex carbohydrates until they are about 1 year old.  So I guess Siena is on the paleo diet, too!  I'm not really doing that on purpose, it just so happens the most nutrient rich easily digestable foods for babies tend to be paleo-approved.  I'm using the Nourishing Traditions website as a reference.  It's a great resource for those who don't want to take their pediatrician's advice blindly.


And since somehow every post leads to that baby sleep issue (sorry guys for beating a dead cow!), you know that wives tale about getting baby to sleep longer by feeding solids?  I really really don't want to jinx it, but she's given me several 10-11 hour stretches the past week.  Could be a coincidence though since she's also on a schedule now.

Oh yeah, one more thing, Joe even has the dogs on a paleo diet.  They get raw beef scraps (also from our 1/4 cow) exclusively now.  Thanks to that cow for feeding our entire family!  We're saving a lot of money too.

PESTO AND BASIL'S DINNER.

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Babiekins Fashion Mag

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

People ask me if I have fun dolling Siena up.  Well, typically no. On the average day, you'll find her in a simple cotton onesie or her diaper.  When it comes to dressing my baby, I'm fairly practical, no frills. Church days we up the ante a little bit. But I do have my eye on kid's fashion (even though I believe the words "kid" and "fashion" should go together sparingly- they have their wholes lives ahead to worry if their clothes are "in style") and am experimenting with fun baby hair accessories for the etsy siteBabiekins online magazine has been a wealth of inspiration. Like seriously, if I could look 1/10th as chic and stylish as these wee kiddos...






I discovered Babiekins when Jodi Rae, our very own Petal and Thorn model (and good friend), played the hippie mama in this love child photoshoot.  Just stunning!









I'm creating a few special hair pieces for Siena's 6th month photos coming up. Stay tuned!

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5 Months Old!

Tuesday, June 21, 2011


Siena at a Glance:
  • 16 pounds, wearing 9 month clothes
  • size 3 diapers, about 6 a day. 
  • eyes are still glassy blue, but I can see yellow flecks in the sun.  I'll be shocked if her eyes don't eventually change to brown. After all, Korean blood runs thick.  
  • starting to exert her will (for example, throws a fit if we don't let her pull the leaves off of plants or turn the pages in the hymnal.)
  • still exclusively breastfed.
  • suddenly stopped spitting up so much. yay!
  • able to roll from back to belly, and belly to back.
  • takes 3 decent naps a day- 9ish, 1ish, and 4ish.  although by blogging that I probably just jinxed it.
  • bedtime is around 7 or 7:30pm. 
  • starting to recognize words.  I say "doggy friends" and she looks up, expecting to see her doggy mobile. 
  • starting to show mild stranger anxiety, especially around men with beards. 
  • at about 4 months, she stopped sleeping through the night and wakes up at 3am starving. kinda bummed, but I'm enjoying the precious time I get to spend with her in the middle of the night :)
  • at least for now, she's a bit of a loner- content to play on her belly with a few toys most of the day. 
  • easily overwhelmed in crowds.
  • nothing makes her laugh more than Pesto and Basil. 
My Latest Read:  I'm reading this incredibly loooooong book by Australia's "baby whisperer" (Lacey, you'll appreciate that!)  called The Dream Baby Guide.  It's not your typical sleep book with some quick fix.  It's about completely changing the way you communicate with your baby.  So, instead of always asking Siena, "Should we change your diaper?  Is it time for milk?  Do you want mama to pick you up? Is it time for another nap?" I should be leading her through simple statements that fill her in on what's to come, like, "Say bye bye to toys, nearly time to change your diaper and then get ready for night night!"  I realized that because I often lack confidence in my mom skills, I always ask Siena to guide me.  She's young right now so it's ok, but down the road it could become a problem.  In just a few days of changing my tone, gestures and speech, she's eating better and not trying to roll away as much during diaper changes.

When I first started reading, I was so skeptical that babies can even understand all this.  But then I realized that these are the same strategies, more or less, used by my dog trainer!  He told me Pesto's aggression stemmed from the fact that he thought he was in charge of the household, and that's a huge burden for a dog to carry.  Our trainer gave us lots of rules- Pesto shouldn't sleep with us, he should walk through doorways after us, he should always heel and never pull on the leash during walks, always wait to eat his food until we gave him the ok to dig in, and we should never have to ask him to do something twice. I was amazed that in a few weeks, Pesto was a new dog.  Far from perfect, but at least not biting and growling!  If dogs can respond to these changes, babies certainly can too.  I'm only halfway through, but I highly recommend this book!  All the sleep information is at the very end of this massive book.  She did that on purpose, because her point is that if your baby is clingy, anxious, and impatient during the day, it's unreasonable to expect them to peacefully fall asleep in their dark room all alone.  I love her holistic approach to sleep.  Ok, baby just woke up, gotta go!

* edit: After re-reading this, I realized it might come off the wrong way. Just want to clarify that we won't be training Siena like a dog or never let her have her own opinion or choice about things. We just want her to trust that we're the parents and she can relax and be the baby! 

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    Tree of Life

    Monday, June 13, 2011

    For the past few YEARS, Joe's waited for Tree of Life to come out.  I've walked in on him watching the trailer at least 20 times. He's explored every nook and cranny on the movie website.  He's read every review.  And a few months ago, the excited countdown til the movie release began.    He took a long lunch break the other day and watched it, practically the only one in the theater. It did not disappoint. He said it was the most painfully beautiful movie he's ever seen, and that having his own baby made it that much more haunting.  He heard it described in one review as "a love letter to the Creator."  Goosebumps!

    I think it inspired these pictures he took of Sisi this weekend :)





    We're hoping to find a babysitter and get out soon to watch it together.  Only problem is, Sisi's sleep has taken a turn for the worse lately, and we don't feel as free to leave her at 7pm when she's down for the night.  She recently learned to roll over, which of course we're thrilled about, but she just can't stop rolling in her sleep!  When she finds herself on her tummy in the middle of the night, she freaks out until I come rock or nurse her to sleep.  Trust me, I'm BUMMED that we've had to resort to these methods again, since she was putting herself to sleep just fine much of the time.  And when she was down for the night, she was DOWN FOR THE NIGHT.  Like 10-12 hours pretty much guaranteed.  The first few days of this rolling fiasco, she was waking 4 or 5 times.  The past 2 days it's been 1 or 2 times, so I guess she's getting used to sleeping on her tummy. But she's been increasingly crabby before bedtime (probably due to overtiredness), and cried in my arms for an hour last night before daddy took over and sang her to sleep.  This morning's nap was rough. She's at the point now where my attempts to soothe her are too stimulating, and I honestly think she's confused about whether she's supposed to surrender to sleep in my arms or not, since every nap and sleep is different. Eventually, I put her in her crib to get her frustration out. She cried/whined for like 3 minutes and fell asleep.  She's been asleep for an hour now.

    So note to self, never blog about how great a sleeper your little one is becoming, because it's sure to bite you in the booty soon enough :(  Didn't want to have to resort to sleep training, but we're praying about it now. I fugure there's a lot of crying going on anyway (both her and me, sadly) we may as well put the tears to good use.  I know many people will disagree with me and that's ok.

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